Lanie

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Lanie
Lanie
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My Sect
Sunni
Religiousness
Religious
My Profession
Health Care Professional
Marital Status
Divorced
County/State
Queensland, Gold Coast
Country
Australia
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner

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A Little Bit About Me
I live in Queensland Australia, the most chunk of my life since my family migrated here in the mid 90's. I have very little though some fond memories being raised in Malaysia especially with culture and food. Ive always been a career minded woman working since my early 20's and now Ive hit my 30's my view of life and circumstances changed significantly.

I am ready to settle down and have children InshaAllah with a husband who has similar goals and values that ties with Islamic teachings and practices though not necessarily of someone who is strictly cultural based. As I grew up in a western country I embrace the diversity of culture in Islam and this has made me more open minded and tolerant.

I find gardening and photography very therapeutic for the soul.

Travelling has always been my passion. Ive been to NY, London, Paris and throughout Asia. Ive also travelled around Australia on a roadtrip and lived in several interstates.

I have two cats and love them both.

Although I'm a sociable person I'm not here just for a 'chitchat'.... I'm looking for transparency in marriage and commitment from a man who will show true responsibility as a husband especially in the hardships of life. I'm upfront and I'm in no position to waste anyone's time and effort. So I ask kindly please don't waste mine either.

Looking forward to have a conversation for a start and we shall see what develops after that, InshaAllah.

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What I Am Looking For
Searching for someone who can constantly guide and lead me closer to Allah (saw), who can lead his future family and who has a stable career. Someone who not only treats his future wife with love, mutual respect and kindness but who is a bestfriend to his wife vice versa. I believe that showing compassion and open communication to each other will sustain a healthy long term relationship.

I firmly believe that marriage is a two way street .

Let's just be real. A man is gifted with a logical brain (more rational, better at coordination and better at spatial awareness) and a woman gifted with an emotional brain (more intuitive and have greater emotional intelligence). Together in a marriage they go hand in hand to create harmony in balancing both state of minds with two people being open minded and supportive of this concept. It is often easy to forget the physiological state of what God instilled in a Man and a Woman and this is just how they they are wired! So I'd like to make a crucial point that one must have full awareness of this to make a marriage last especially when times in life gets tough.

Most people get married believing a MYTH that marriage is a beautiful box of all things that have longed for: companionship, intimacy, friendship etc which are all valid points.
However the truth is, that marriage at the start is an empty box, you must put something in before you take anything out.
There is no love in marriage, love is people, and people put love in marriage.
There is no romance in marriage, you have to infuse it into your marriage.
Both man and woman must learn the art, and form the habit of giving, loving, serving, praising of keeping the box FULL. And this is what I mean by marriage is a two way street. If you take out more than you put in, the box will be empty.

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Personal Information
My Citizenship
Australian
Country of Origin
Malaysia
Willing to Relocate?
Nationally
I am Looking to Marry
Next year
My Income
Prefer not to say
Marital Status
Divorced
Would I like to have Children?
Yes
Do I have children?
No
My Living Arrangements?
I Live Alone
Country
Australia
County/State
Queensland, Gold Coast
Distance
unknown
Appearance
My Height
1.68m (5' 6")
My Build
Medium
My Hair Colour
Dark brown
Colour of My Eyes
Brown
Do I Smoke?
No
Do I Have Any Disabilities?
No
Education
My Education Level
Masters degree
Subject I Studied
Critical Care
Language
My First Language
English
My Second Language
Other
Work
My Profession
Health Care Professional
My Job Title
Registered Nurse
Religion
Religiousness
Religious
My Sect
Sunni
Hijab/Niqab
No
Beard
Prefer not to say
Are You a Revert?
No
Do You Keep Halal?
I Always Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Usually